What Would You Say to an Ex-Narcissist if Given The Opportunity?

Speak what you mean and mean what you say.

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You taught me how pathetic I was becoming. I mean, I know I was embarrassed a lot, but looking back, I was about as pathetic as I could get.

You were good at making me think I was insane. You are excellent at redirecting the focus of your lies and manipulation by either more lies, silence, or projection; yea, you did that a lot too.

I still list all the horrible things you did to me.

You project my reactions to you as abuse, and you are damn good at playing the victim. Thanks for showing me what I never want in my future partner. You showed me true evil does exist.

I have my shit to work on, and I’m not afraid to admit. But I never deserved any of your abuse that started this misery of the last five years.

Yea, I reach out at times of desperation and guilt, then flip and act insane. It’s exactly what this kind of relationship does to someone. You love it! It writes right into your narrative that I am the crazy one and not you.

Go abuse someone else. Thanks for the lesson.

Here are a few things I DON’T want in a partner.

• Be single, yea, I know, that’s a given. But…