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What’s something a narcissist will never tell you?
They will tell you many things, do you believe them?
1. Sorry: They may say it, but won’t mean it. If you’re sorry, you don’t repeat the horrible actions.
2. They lie: They will justify and minimize their lies. What is the real mind fuck, they actually believe what they say.
3. Image: It is draining to uphold an image that doesn’t exist.
4. Truth: They will never tell the whole truth. Again, they minimize it or put a spin on it. Even when you know the truth, they won’t allow you to believe it.
5. Only you: They will tell you they never felt this way about anyone else, you are their twin flame, soulmate, you feel like home. They’ve said it to many others. It’s hurts, I know.
6. Many others: They have many on standby in case you misbehave. They have been grooming the new ones long before you knew. But don’t you know!?!? They are just friends!
7. Self Reflection: It is so very painful for them to look in the mirror through the mask. They hate what they see and will easily throw projection and blame back at you.
8. I love you: And mean it. You don’t love someone and lie, cheat, manipulate and physically abuse them. Then when they react, you blame them for their reactions to the abuse.