What’s The Longest Relationship One Can Have With a Narcissist?

It all depends, how much abuse can you endure?

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What’s your mental capacity for gaslighting, projection and abuse?

You can have a relationship FOREVER with the asshole if you want, seriously.

You have a feeling, or need? Express it. If that need/feeling doesn’t revolve around them, they ditch you, project, or gaslight. They really make you feel all kinds of fucked up. They make you feel selfish for having a need.

You may “react.”

Here’s where the mind-fucking begins! It ends up being all your fault! And you really will start believing it. Once you experience reactive abuse, you won’t know how to respond any more.

You will most likely run back, and might apologize for things you didn’t do, other than have a feeling and they punish you for it.

Here’s an example.

My ex calls me drunk, nothing unusual. She’s telling me more drama about her brother (he’s an alcoholic).

I tell her, “the story is stressing me out.” (I have seen him in bad shape in the hospital, and it was scary.) I didn’t yell, call names, nothing. Just told her a feeling. She got upset, yelled and hung up on me (she’s a supposed life coach by the way) Which in return, “triggers” me from all her lying and cheating in…