What’s the purpose of Narcissist abuse?

The purpose for the Narcissist or the unfortunate soul that “dances” with the devil?

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The “purpose” from the narcissistic side:

• Control, they want complete control over you. And Narcissist will throw everything at you to make sure it happens.
• You help them see their damaged self in an alluring light. Narcissist bounce from person to person to keep that never-ending honeymoon phase going. BUT if you continue the “worship” after the honeymoon phase, they will keep you around.
• All while Narcissist projects what they hate about themselves onto you. And if they are good at it, you will fucking believe them. You become the sponge for all their self-hate. In the end, you are nothing but a punching bag to the abuse they dish out.

The purpose for the lost soul that fell for the deceit:

• First, you think you found your soul mate. You felt like you found your person. Until it all starts to unravel, and you don’t know who they are, and yourself for that matter.
• You walked into hell so they could show you every unhealed trauma and character defect you have. And you will sit and watch as they carefully dissect your very weakness in front of you and lay it piece by piece right in front of your eyes.
• You will frantically try to get back what…