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When The Narcissist Won’t Answer Your Call or Emails
They love the chase, and you are playing right into their game
I know it’s painful, and I know you want to hear their voice and give you that sense of comfort and security this abusive person appears to provide you with. Why won’t they answer or respond!? You didn’t do anything but express a feeling of how you were treated! You begin to question if you are abusive like they say you are, right?
You want just one “hit” to make that pit in your stomach dissipate and feel some form of relief. Please respond to me! You know the relief will be short-lived, but anything is better than your current pain. You will disrespect yourself just to hear this person’s voice. You’ve never loved or cared for someone this much in your life, right? It’s a bond you never thought was possible! You understand them if they would just let you help them, please talk to me!
It’s something that can’t be explained. The yearning for them to reach out or respond with a caring tone, or at least give a glimmer of hope they give a shit is catastrophic. You promise yourself you will keep your composure this time if they just respond or reach out to you. You will try and be understanding of what they are going through. What do the others have that you don’t? You treated them so well, right?
