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Why Borderline Personal Disorder and Narcissism is a Match Made in Hell
It’s the perfect storm of destruction they both crave.
It’s not just he borderline with the attraction. What the Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD) has the Narcissists wants too. They just don’t know it yet.
The borderline knows what they want, even if that “want” is extreme, dysfunctional, irrational, over the top and a bit, how can I say this? Selfish, no, maybe crazy?
The relationship starts out like a week long 4th of July Firework celebration.
Where each partner will one up the other with adoration and attention. Both our sulking in the sun loving this new found toy they seemed to have stumbled upon.
The borderline might be a little hesitant, but the firework show is too good to pass up, but in the back of their mind they’ve experienced this song and dance before, and they know how it ends. It’s not pretty. But it’s worth a shot.
So the BPD kicks it up a notch. I’m talking they give 3–4 grand finales and the Narcissists is chomping at the bit, loving the BPD performance.
The Narcissists may have or may not experienced this type of spark in the past, but at this point they don’t…
