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Why Covert Narcissists Believe You Are The Problem, Not Them
They have no idea they are a Narcissist. They know something is wrong, but they aren’t sure what.
I’d say 99% of Narcissist have no idea they are Narcissist. Unless they are very aware, which doesn’t exist.
Most really believe they are empaths. That is what’s scary. Many coverts portray an image on social media that doesn’t exist. An empathic person doesn’t repeatedly lie, cheat, manipulate and rip souls out! The more covert, the more believable they will be. Especially if they are the “spiritual” type. They may use the spiritual dogma as a means to work their way into a victim’s life while the victim is completely unaware.
They are what I call, “loathing path,” which means they act as if they care for others, but all they care about is themselves. They will treat you poorly, and they play the victim when you react. They are very good at disguising their abuse and projecting what they do onto others. As they slowly gain an audience backing up their narrative, they are the victim, not you.
All the so-called “self-help” they offer is for attention and a projection of what they need to work on. When they are anything but an expert. They will attach to titles and particular people to give them that false…
