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Why Do Narcissists Mistreat You?
Simple, they know you won’t leave
Think how these mother fuckers have treated you. Think about it. Have you thought about it? Guess what? You didn’t leave, right? Well, maybe you did, and if you did, kudos to you! But the bottom line, they treat you like complete shit because they know you won’t leave. They know what you will put up with, you’ve showed them time and time again.
You forgave them for cheating 15x, you forgave them for their lies, you forgave them putting you last, you forgave them for their lies, you forgave them for the physical abuse, stop fucking doing it! They know they can treat you like utter garbage, and your ass isn’t going anywhere! That’s why these assholes keep coming back around.
Would they forgive you for doing half the shit they’ve done to you? Hell no! My ex contacted my ex while she was out fucking her ex-husband lying to me about it! Seriously, how delusional and sick is that. She actually made an effort to find my ex on Facebook while she was on a trip to her ex-husband’s parent’s lake house to see if I was cheating on her! How fucked up is that? She left me, we weren’t together! They can’t stand loosing control. They think they own us!
She knew exactly how she could treat me, and I wasn’t going anywhere. BUT, when she needed me, then she would gaslight me…