Why do Narcissists Stay When They Hate You?

In reality, it has nothing to do with the Narcissists, but most never see it that way.

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I see so many questions on why narcissist do what they do. I get it, that was me three years ago flooding message boards searching for answers of “what I was experiencing.”

Little did I know I needed to flip the script on myself just as they do with all their lies.

The day I started asking myself the questions is the day I slowly removed myself from the fucked up situation I called a relationship.

• Why do you stay with someone you despise?
• Why do you stay with someone who doesn’t respect you?
• Why do you stay with someone that has shown time, and time again they are a lying fucking cheat?
• Why do you have suck little self-worth and respect that you subject yourself to their abuse.
• What is it you “really” love about a person who is so mean to you.
• What is wrong with you? Not them.

If victims of narcissist abuse would spend more time focusing on themselves, once they realize what they are dealing with, it would help so much. Your amount of time spent suffering would significantly decrease.