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Why do Narcissists Think They Are The Victim?

It’s a figment of their imagination. And they have a severe case of selective amnesia.

Chris Freyler
2 min readDec 3, 2022
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After all the shit they put you through. They forget all the lying, cheating, manipulation and mind fucking. Then, when you blow your fucking lid with some “truth serum,” they cry wolf.

It’s fucking maddening, and believable for the outsider looking in. Anyone that happens to catch a glimpse of your “reactions,” will believe you are the crazy ass abusive prick they paint out to be.

I’m not sure if the narcissist actually believes they are the victim or not. Because if you date a real covert asshole they will come back begging for another chance. They will apologize; “they need you, they need you, they need you” talk about a mind fuck. What you have to remember is when they are mean, that is exactly who they are.

They are doing all this while they have multiple pieces of ass on the side. And they are doing the same to them.

They become a victim because they believe their whole fucked up narrative.

They go into a relationship with lies, and almost fuck the victim up beyond repair. Then when the victim loses their shit, they flip the fucking script on the victims already damaged mind.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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