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Why Does Life Never Seem to go as Planned, or Does it?

Life is full of twists and turns, but it’s all about how you handle it.

Chris Freyler
1 min readMar 12, 2023
Photo by Chris Chow on Unsplash

More than likely because you are following someone else’s plan or you aren’t aware that life can be brutal.

Life has a habit of throwing many curve balls, and it’s all about how you swing. But, the older and wiser you get, you begin to “adjust” the swing and not waste swings on bad pitches.

You must know what’s worth putting effort into and what is not. So many spend years watching curve ball after curve ball be thrown at them while not adjusting the swing, and then they wonder what is wrong. Why is life so unfair?

Life can be fucking brutal, and you can add to the brutality of it all if you aren’t careful.

Wasting energy on the wrong people in life is a death sentence.

The good thing is that as long as you are alive, you can create a new plan(swing) and improve at handling curve balls.

The unfortunate reality? Most never adjust and give up and “settle.”

Look around; there are a lot of “settlers” out there just watching the curve balls fly by.

They got tired of swinging.

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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