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Why is it so Hard to Find a Good Person to Date?
I believe the good ones are no longer “looking.”
Because the good people have been burned so badly, they aren’t dating.
What’s out “there” now? It’s all the parasites looking to latch on to a “host” to suck dry. But the “hosts” finally get tired of the parasites and choose a life free from the abuse.
I know good people are out there, but sifting through the bullshit isn’t worth it anymore. Hence why you have people like my ex dating multiple people? That’s what is left out in the dating world. Manipulators using and abusing one another, especially the older you get.
Your best option is to find people to be friends with. Really get to know them. No sex, no “do you wanna date,” none of that shit. Get to know one another in all aspects of life. It could take years.
Then your answer will come.
Everyone wants to get together and fuck right out of the gate. I’ll never understand that, maybe, but I never dated a lot. There is so much more to a relationship than sex. When you have the “right” relationship, the sex will be phenomenal and add to the experience.
When some manipulator tries to base the whole relationship around some fake ass sex, you best run. Or enjoy it for a bit, and…
