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Why is it Some People Think Narcissists are Nice?

You thought they were nice too when you first met them, right?

Chris Freyler
2 min readJul 10, 2022
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You will be pinching yourself thinking you found someone with so much in common with you! They are great at portraying an image that doesn’t exist. They create a vision of the dream person you didn’t think existed.

This poor fucking soul was the product of an abusive marriage, and they finally found their person, YOU! They may have even shed a tear on your first meeting setting the trap you knew nothing about.

They are nice until they aren’t. They’re nice until you get tired of all the fucked up attention and drama they are showering you with. Until you get so annoyed with it, you will tell them to back the fuck off in a friendly way. Or say you need some space.

Setting a boundary is a code word for them to run off to who they have waiting in the wings. Because you bet your confused little ass they have many on standby because you aren’t the first person that got tired of them. The drama and manipulation will become too much.

Once the first incident happens where they are cheating, lying, or manipulating you, it’s gloves off. Shit will never be the same. And that “nice” person you once knew will never appear again; if they do, it won’t feel as warm and…

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Chris Freyler
Chris Freyler

Written by Chris Freyler

Mistake Maker Extraordinaire .Writing from a place I don’t understand at times. I write to help myself, in return hope it helps you. Just another Quora guy.

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