Why it’s Difficult to End a Relationship With Someone Who Has Abused You

It’s no different than a soldier in the battlefield.

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Most people don’t intentionally hurt you. They have all that trauma shit going on too.

You see the good in the person even when the bad outweighs it. But the good in some, can leave a lasting impression that is hard to shake.

If you are aware of shit, you realize what is going on, and then you will want to help them. And most likely what you are trying to help them with is something you need the same help with.

Relationships are painful, at least “real” relationships. Anyone can have a “fuckable” relationship.

But when you meet that one person, that truly touches your heart, and life, it’s hard to shake.

We all struggle with something.

Most people don’t want to hurt anyone. They are doing what they know to protect themselves.

Sort of like a solider in the battle field.

They don’t want to hurt the percieved enemy. But they have to hurt them to survive.

It’s not their intention.

It’s nothing but a war of the mind, similar to a war on the battle field.

We are all human trying to survive.

There will be casualties.

And it hurts worst when feelings are involved.

I wish I didn’t feel. I wish I wasn’t sensitive.

Sometimes you have to put the person down to save yourself.

It’s a horrible predicament to be in.