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Will a Narcissist be “Happy” With Someone Else After Moving on?
Their happy, and your happy are two different kinds of happy.
Your first issue is worrying about how happy they “won’t” be after moving on. The fuckers never “move on,” but you can. And they aren’t happy. They mimic happy, that’s it. But they are damn good at it. They love to put out a image of “happy,” but they are anything but that.
If you don’t believe me, that “they never move on,” then contact them. If they don’t answer the first few, or hundred times you try, keep trying. Sooner or later they will need something from you, and the proof will be in the pudding.
What you need to worry about is if you can “move on.”
But you see, for “us” the ones who went through the merry-go-round of manipulationville, it is no easy feat.
Breaking the trauma bond is such a small part of “us” moving on. The residuals will hang around for some time no matter how much you think you’ve “moved” on.
Then after the residuals, you will see your little nuggets of toxic you brought to the relationship. And I’m telling you, it can be debilitating. They have a way of showing us everything we don’t like in ourselves, and why our other relationships haven’t worked…
