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Will a Narcissists Ever Change For Anyone?
Why yes, they can! But not in the way you think.
If you actually believe they can, you are as delusional as they are. The only way they change themselves into a better person is to keep changing the characters in the audition they frantically try to control and direct. That and keep their flying monkey’s on a tight leash. They don’t want them to fly off. Who else will support their false narrative and fake ass life they live?
Why would they want to change into anyone else but their fabulous, delusional imaginary self? If they did that, they would have to look at the (w)horror show they actually are, and very few are capable of self-reflection.
They have to be aware there is a problem, and they aren’t.
I know, I know, they told you they changed since the last time you saw them, right? They even have bouts where they “say” they are a horrible person, and you deserve so much better, right?
Do you think they believe that shit?
Well, they do at that moment, but that moment is short-lived, brother. They love the “woe is me, feel sorry for me” as they redirect the attention off of the lies and cheating as their manipulation is in full force.
