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Will Asking The Narcissists if They Are Seeing Someone Help You Move on?
If you think that will help, go right ahead, but you’re only fooling yourself.
Why do you want to torment yourself? You and I both know you already went to the end of the earth to find out if they are. And if you do ask them, do you think they will ever admit it? I mean, they might, but it will have to benefit them in some way, not you.
I’ll answer for you.
I’ll do you that favor so you wont have to contact them. This will be a lot less painful too. You won’t have to hear it from the “horses mouth,” and take what is equivalent to a gut punch from Tyson when they inform you they are.
I know what really hurt is how quick they moved on. That, and how they don’t give a fuck about your feelings no matter how much you plea, beg, bargain and steal.
They aren’t wired right, and either is the “new” flame they replaced you with. But let’s be real, they didn’t replace you, you were replaced the minute you entered the relationship. They were talking to many before you decided to test the waters with this prize possession you happened to stumble upon.
