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Yes, Narcissists do Believe They are “Good” People, Until This Happens
It’s all a superficial delusion they have to believe, not want to.
But sooner or later, someone will call them on all their drama-filled abusive bullshit. It will “sting” them, so what will they do? Project their miserable, drunken delusional ass on to you! And if that doesn’t confuse you, here comes the gaslighting.
They can not and will not accept their shitty abusive personality.
They are so damn delusional no matter how many people they run off, no matter how bad their kids despise them, they will NEVER drop the fake self-image; it is too painful for them.
So, they will do anything to keep “fooling” people, and themselves. But they are such a shallow person; anyone with a bit of awareness will be on to their bullshit.
So, what do they do? They kick it up a notch and go after more vulnerable people. The people who are desperate and looking for help. Maybe the person is getting over a death, loss of job, or even another abusive break-up. No one is off limits.
They prey on support groups, yoga studios, and self-help forums to try to portray an important image that doesn’t exist.
